You meet, you go out, you decide that there’s chemistry there and that you -mutually- want to see more of each other. A Fling begins, and it’s amazing. You may be filled with anxiety, not sure how to act, where you’re going and what to do (or not to do) to turn it into the love story you’re dreaming of. More or less, all our questions are the same. And we give you 12 of them here. Read on, do, and succeed!
It’s simple. Literally. What makes a fling so intriguing is precisely the fact that it’s simple. There are no expectations, you take it day-to-day, have fun when, where and if you feel like it, any time you feel like it. It’s not constraining and it never becomes an “obligation”; it’s all “just so”. We all have enough obligations in our everyday life to have to worry about one more. So why not learn to enjoy today, without worrying about…[read more]
First of all, let’s answer one basic question: Have you ever felt that if you get one more text or notification on your social media, you’ll likely throw your phone against a wall to make it shut up? Okay, take that amount of texting and divide it by 100. Take that sum now, and divide it by half. And then by a quarter. There you have the ideal amount of communication that will make him wonder what… [read more]
Just say “no”. It truly is a tiny, albeit beautiful, word. And there’s more magic in that little syllable than in any other word you can think of. More than “love” even. Because by using “no”, whatever it is he wants automatically becomes a need, a craving, so much more than a simple desire. He will strive to achieve it, as it is no longer a given, but a desideratum, it’s something he lacks, which gives it all the more importance. Especially if what you refuse him is…[read more]
Whether you’re the type of person who sticks to a strict schedule, or you’re the type that doesn’t plan anything further into the future than maybe what you’ll have for lunch today, your time is your own. And it’s precious. Just as you are. So, when you are too available, making alterations in your schedule, his interpretation is that he’s more important than your plans. And whether we like it or not, he also “reads” that you don’t value your time; or yourself as much. Harsh? Maybe, but it is true. And you just… [read more]
You don’t. Why worry your pretty little head on trying to find a name for what it is you’re living with this person at the moment? Why miss out on the fun, for the lack of a name to call it? And think about this: is it really you that needs a label, or are you striving to find something to use when discussing it with others? Put your label maker back into your desk drawer and forget about it. Whatever it is, you don’t need… [read more]
Maybe, or he’s just keeping the flame of mystery burning. And you should do the same. Just as you don’t need to know everything and everyone in his life at the moment, in the same way, he doesn’t need to know everything about you. Leave something to the imagination; besides it’s one of those ancient secrets known to few that mystery creates the… [read more]
Take a chill pill. Seriously. If he can’t take care of himself, how on earth is he going to take care of you when you need him to? You’re not his mother, he’s a grown man, and he’s fine. Or do you want that label to read “Mommy” when he talks about you? How much do you think that image will turn him on when…[read more]
8. To have sex or to make love?
Let’s get one thing straight: sex is just like one’s taste in food, it differs from person to person, situation to situation, and from time to time. The one constant is that, if it’s wholesome, satisfying, and downright GOOD, nothing else matters. Whether you follow your instincts and it’s raw and hot, or you prefer candles and feather touching, it’s all great. How do you make it great for you? That’s another simple answer… [read more]
It’s 2020 for heaven’s sake. And though women strive for equality still, and it’s not yet something we can take for granted, you should be able to be yourself in any type of relationship. What kind of future does your fling have, anyway, if you’re not yourself? How can you be happy in a relationship like that long-term? Drop the pretense, and show true confidence, which is a turn on and… [read more]
Don’t change the way you look at things or the way you acted in the first place. When something’s not broken, don’t try to fix it; you’ll just ruin it instead. Together doesn’t mean “connected by the hip”, it means “we’re comfortable enough to stay exactly where we are”. Now, the complicated thing is how much to fan that flame to keep it burning, without putting it out… It’s not that puzzling you just have to…[read more]
The keyword is “balance”. So what, your man doesn’t do public displays of affection, big deal. When you see him pulling away, pull away too. Remember that what’s “forbidden” is always the most desired, besides if you mirror his reactions, you’ll plant doubt in his mind which…[read more]
12. There’s no question here. This is the conclusion. The one and only conclusion.
There’s only one way to keep his attention, to make him want you more, to help him open up and, eventually, fall head-over-heels in love with you:
11 women and one man, in more than 200 pages and 12 chapters, initiate you into the mystical world of “Flings”. The most certain road to success and conquering, not only the man you desire but also the reciprocal relationship you dream of with him.
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