People are what they do; not what they say they'll do

Love is not always about how much you say “I Love You”. It’s about  how much you prove to your other half that those three little words coming out of your mouth are true. Love is meant to be real, not something you say out of habit, or to simply achieve something. Words have no meaning if they are not from the heart.

You can say that you love me, you can say that you care about me; but if you don’t act on those words and show me that you do, then I don’t believe you. You can say that you miss me but you are not doing anything about it; am I supposed to believe you and come running back to you? Words are just words unless you prove them with your actions.

Anyone can say something or promise someone the world –but that’s why people don’t believe anything they hear anymore; anyone can come into your life and tell you how much they love you, but in all honesty, it takes someone very special to stay in your life and actually show you how much they really care. After all that’s exactly what everyone wants. Right?

Because unless it all becomes a reality they are just words that were said and forgotten two seconds later. So why should whatever you say not go in one ear and out the other? Why should we build our homes and dreams on words just so that they can fall apart, just like a castle built on the sand, doomed to be swept away with the first tide?

I know, in all certainty,that every woman in this world wants to feel loved and appreciated. No matter how many times you say things, if your actions don’t prove them they don’t count. It’s the little things, the simple yet thoughtful gestures that make a woman hear what you are saying, make her listen and believe in you, believe that you can be the man she has been looking for.

For example, making her a cup of coffee in the morning or a simple text to say goodnight, or even a surprise visit to see if she is ok. You don’t need to go all out with a fancy dinner at an expensive restaurant or a pricy gift that she may or may not like. Save those for the special occasions in your relationship.

Making a woman feel special is not hard. You just need to show her once in a while how much you care, tell her how you feel every day and that she is the one you want to be with. Prove to her how true your feelings for her really are, make her believe you.

But whether you are in a romantic relationship or a friendship, everyone hates it when someone tells them they care and that they are there for them whenever they need them –yet don’t mean it– and are nowhere to be seen when the true need of help arises; or is that just me?

In the end, people are what they do, not what they say they are going to do. And actions speak louder than words.