Chemistry is essential in a relationship

Everyone says that being attracted to someone is probably the most important thing in order to make a relationship work. How would it work out if you find everyone else around you more attractive than your partner? That’s rubbish; in my very humble opinion of course. Chemistry is the most important thing in a relationship. It has a deeper purpose. It’s not accidental, it’s not a blessing, and it’s definitely not luck. Chemistry is more than just the physical attraction that occurs between two people; it’s that strong feeling, something like a spark between two people, you can feel it like an aura trying to pull each other closer together.

Basically, it is a strong biological chemical reaction towards someone else. Probably this whole attraction phase is the phase when the brain becomes more active and different kinds of proteins and hormones reach the highest possible level. I am definitely not a scientist –that’s what I think though. Whatever the case is, what I believe is that chemistry is a feeling that creates the strong desire to share your life with another person on physical levels but on emotional levels as well.

Some scientists, though, believe that chemistry comes from pheromones which are invisible chemicals that can be shared between people, can influence the behavior of the other person and basically make them attracted to each other, bring them closer together, connecting them body and mind. When two people feel chemistry, they will often feel their heart race, their body temperature may go up but they definitely feel excited.

Chemistry is definitely a real phenomenon and is also a rare phenomenon. We have all heard stories when people were on a date with very attractive men or women but they were disappointed because there just wasn’t any chemistry. But of course, we have heard happy stories when people can also notice and feel the chemistry between two people.

How can you understand if you have chemistry with someone else? You won’t have even to ask yourself that very question, you will know as soon as you meet someone, as soon as you start talking to someone. When you see that conversations just flow with that specific person, when you feel butterflies in your stomach, when your whole face is shining with a big smile each time you talk to that person, then you know that’s the real chemistry between two people.

You cannot create chemistry as it is an experience, you cannot force it; you either have it or not. If you have enough confidence though, if you’re okay with yourself first, then you will realize that you will start feeling that attraction phase and other people will feel it too towards you. There’s no perfect timing for chemistry; there’s a perfect timing to love yourself first before giving your all to someone else. The more you work on yourself to be a beautiful, bright and healthy person, with love, stability, positivity and faith, the easier it will be to find chemistry with someone.

Chemistry is when the feeling is mutual and creates an even stronger bond between a two people in a relationship.

You know it’s present when you forget where you are when you’re hanging out with someone because you’re so preoccupied in the other person, when you don’t even realize that it is time to stop talking and go to bed at 1 am. You know you have chemistry when that person is the first thought when you wake up in the morning and the last thought when you go to bed at night.

We are all attracted to physical beauty, it’s in our human nature maybe, but real chemistry comes from a deeper emotional connection that requires both people to be ready to accept someone in our lives and be completely devoted.